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Saturday, December 9th, 2006
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3:31 am - Change
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Change, it's something that takes place almost everyday of our lives. Everything can change, people, places, things. Something things change for the worse, other for the better. When something changes, we don't know to which degree it will change or for what purpose. We will make new friends, lose old ones. Life is full of change. However, it is how we view the change that will make an impact in our life.
You can think that you know how everything will turn out, but then in one minute, everything can change. Then what, how do we decide what to do next? Usually we find the answer. It just takes a while since the mist of change clouds our judgment to the point where the only thing we want, is what we just had. When you learn to look beyond the fact that sometimes life isn’t a walk on the beach, and more like a walk in woods where there are many things that can be in our way, we can learn to see that life will be good again someday. What we are looking for just maybe on the other side of the hill, we just have to keep looking.
Sometimes we can’t deal with change, or may worry that change will effect us in a negative manner. This can very well happen, but it will only happen when you can’t seem to let go of the object that has changed. If you are thinking about something you wanted to happen, or thought that will happen and things changed, when can you learn to grow? No one learns when they are drowning in their own sea of self pity. The only time you learn is when you swam out of it and are looking back at the situation.
Do not worry about change, change will come. Tomorrow is a new day. What will happen will and if it is not supposed to, it won’t. Don’t worry about what you want, but worry about what you need. Learn to accept what life hands you. I don’t mean to be cliché, but when life hands you lemons, make lemonade. Basically my point, make the best of everything.
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(Walk the road of life.)
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